"If you want something, just ask. Don’t then come later and complain that I don’t give you things, or do things for you if you have not asked me.” - love God.
Who is in your life today that makes your heart flow with thanksgiving to the Lord? If you have a friend or group of friends who faithfully follow the Lord and remain steadfast year after year, take the time to tell them what treasured friends they are.
Not loving the world is not about external indicators like avoiding the activities of the world and materialism. It is about internal attitudes and how you manage them. How do you identify those internal motives and work against them in your life?